Saturday, September 14, 2013

Relationship Reflection


Relationship Reflection

Relationships are very important to survive in our society.   Keeping your circle small or large is completely up to the person.  I personally keep my circle small.  I have a wonderful family that is supportive and forgiving as any family member should be.  I grew up in a military family.  My father was a hard core Marine that worked long hours and was deployed most of my years as a young child.  He taught my siblings and me obedience and how important it was to work hard and play hard.  My mother was a wonderful homemaker.  She provided so much love and compassion for me and my siblings.  My mother worked very hard with over compensating for filing in while my father was deployed.  Of all the lessons she taught me; being strong and loving life no matter what it throws at you; you can handle it. 

I have this man in my life that I am praying to God every day for bringing to me.  My husband is a great partner that shares the same type of compassion as I do for education.  My daughter who is blossoming into this beautiful young woman is great at making others feel at ease and loved once you meet her for the first time.  My son will make any one feel as if they are on a pedestal at all times.  At times I cannot see where they get their mannerisms from.  I am very blessed to have a very open relationship with my two children.  I only have a few friends that I share personal experiences with just because I am an extremely busy person with work and my family. 

I find it challenging to maintain relationships with others at times.  I forget to call a person back or just follow up with them about their life.  Developing relationships are very easy for me.  Working in this field I find it easy to build upon their experiences.  Working in a military community and having some of the experiences similar to the families I work with daily I find as a blessing. 
 
This is not an updated pic of my family.  My daughter is now ten years old and my little man is eight.  They all share the same beautiful smile and humor. 

4 comments:

  1. Beautiful family photo!

    I totally agree with you Chrissy with maintaining a small circle of close friends. Personally, I find it easier because you can focus on the few people that are close to you. However, I've learned the importance of having a large networking community of community partners. Partnering with community agencies in providing our students with services is so gratifying and I truly enjoy it. I will say that it has been very difficult for me to balance family life, Grad school and my new position at work, but thank God for understanding family and friends. Talk to you soon :)

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  2. I feel you. Both my children play a sport and of course they do not practice on the same day. Work, grad school, kids, family and friends; has been on my plate for some time and as you stated thank god for their understanding. Thanks so much for your response!

    Crissy

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  3. Crissy,
    Very sweet picture of your families big smiles!
    I agree, even with having a small group of close relationships, it can be difficult to keep in touch with all due to work or other obligations. Your parents, even with difficult circumstances, were there for you and taught you great values. I think that's great! My husband is in the military and it can be difficult sometimes when he is away, but now a days there are more ways to keep in touch which helps out a lot. Best of luck!

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  4. Hi Crissy

    You have a gorgeous family. Your children have the most contagious smiles :-).

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